Hello ! It's been a long time since i blogged things
Today i want to discuss things about you guys about passion and reality
PASSION HERE IS ABOUT HOBBY THAT WASTING TIME AND YOU KNOW YOU WON'T DO THIS FOR LIVING OR YOU CAN'T HOPE MUCH FROM IT
you guys must have been in this situation when you're lazy to tidy up your room and left it just like that
and then your Mom will just cracking the house by yelling and yelling about your messy room or the messy house or about your attitude for never helping Mom.
Actually a messy room/house is not always a sign that you're lazy (but if you're a couch-potato then you are).
it's just you didn't have any time to do the cleaning time when you got so many works to do.
like you're going to do something that take so much time
for me it is drawing.
How could drawing take so many time?
yes, the idea, sketching, lineart-ing, coloring, shadowing and so on is take approximately 5 hours ++ for me
and then it feels like the time walks so fast.
Especially if you happen not having a maid in your house, this is where your struggle is started
1. YOUR PASSION X HELPING MOM
whoa this is actually happened to many girls in the world actually, (and me when i'm in my early teenager) , you have your personal world . and then Mom start to ask you to help and there's so many things you must do and learn( Asian Mom : Girls can cook, take care of household, tidying house, is a must) . and then you start to help Mom, after all the house chores is done, you getting tired, and then you go to take a nap for a while, but you found yourself wake up too late, Mom start to preparing dinner and she need your help ! after dinner, you gotta to do the dishes . and then you found yourself tired.
yeah, this is the reason why household always messy every time we put effort to do our passion
for this i think balancing is a must, because for me house chores is a must too.
you don't want to let you Mom do all the job alone while you just sitting in the computer, in a air conditioned room, with snacks that Mom just prepared for you
for me a great girl is who can take care household well (you don't have to do this if you have a maid) + can manage time well for passion.
i'm trying but it's hard as hell.
2. YOUR PASSION X REALITY
"what? your passion is drawing? photography? cosplaying? gaming? come on ! you can't live by it ! you must work work and work to get money to live !"
sounds so classic but it is true, if you're not have effort enough to get job from it, your career might fall into the cliff, eaten by fish :v
actually, i haven't doing anything either. but i think if i writing this down, this might be my charm to do better.
for women : the choice is two to have a good life : have a good career or marry a good-and-fulfilling live man.
for man : have a good career.
but i think woman these days aren't the same as back then when a woman is always a passive, doing nothing and get married by a man.
woman should have their own chance to have a good career in their passion.
and this is the real problem :
BLENDING PASSION AND REALITY
(susah-susah gampang) hard and easy at the same time lol
it depends on effort and parents blessing
you can't forcing yourself to do your passion while your life is in the edge.
when your parents business are down, and your not helping them, instead you just do whatever you want,
you won't go forward, whatever you do will stuck at that time
and then what would i recommend you to do?
MAKE SOMETHING YOU LOVE WHEN YOU HAVE TIME TO LAZY-ING, DOING NOTHING, PLAY GAMES (after helping parents)
from something, it can turn to be everything
you can turn it out to be your living
this is the reason why so many workers wait for weekend and lazy at their workplace
it's not their passion, but they need to prioritize their living first.
especially if you have a family now,
don't get so rush to get married, do whatever you love and need for living first.
remember, where's your passion's money come from.
it's just an opinion, no offense, but if you have something nice to say, just comment below.
if you don't, just shut up.
it's just what on my mind
it's just what on my mind
thank you :)